Subject: Any Escort Has Refused To See you?

Rhys
1
- Southend-on-Sea punter

Aug. 10, 2017, 11:13 a.m.


Because I am too big apparently. 


Does this sound plausible or is there some other reason. 


This is very hard to take.

IndigoNile
6
- Manchester agency

March 18, 2018, 11:56 p.m.


Out of interest, what size are you? Length and girthwise?


It is indeed possible for ladies to refuse a guy due to their size, as not all of them can manage to take him fully. These is especially likely with the ones who offer anal sex, because even though they can stretch themselves to a degree, it can still be touch to take well-endowed chaps.

Edward
1
- Gloucester punter

March 19, 2018, 10:56 a.m.


I dont think that she will refused u for this reason , they are here for the making pleasure for men , so if she refused u , for me , she's totaly not professional

Bradley
4
- London punter

March 19, 2018, 2:32 p.m.


weird problem isnt?

Ariel
4
- Derby escort

March 19, 2018, 11:39 p.m.


edward, i am an escort and refuse many clients based on size if they mention it, i say i can not do a full service but oral and hand relief should be ok, if they not happy with my offer then they can look else where, however i find genuinely large men dont look for full service anyway if you can accommodate its a bonus to them, but they do tend to suffer from erection problems due to size and cant do full service. as for refusing i refuse a lot on a regular basis for many different reasons just because im an escort does not mean i will see any tom dick or harry or here just to please men, am independent so has to be a two way thing going on.

Rose
4
- St Albans escort

March 20, 2018, 6:25 p.m.


Hey Rhys,

Like Ariel says, plenty of us can’t take extremely large sizes. In my case, I’m happy to try vaginal sex with any size, but if a guy’s looking for a BJ I may turn him down. My mouth is small, and anything over about 7 inches makes me feel like my jaw’s going to drop off. Particularly thick cocks are difficult to take, too.

I turn down any potential clients that I think I can’t service to a high standard, whether that’s because of size, or gender, or services they want that I don’t provide, or anything else. I take my job seriously and perform to the best of my ability - and sometimes that means admitting that I’m not the best person for a client.


Regards,

Rose

alan
2
- Blackpool punter

March 28, 2018, 10:24 p.m.


hello can i ask when do you refuse the man or say you cant do the full service is this after you talk on the phone or when they turn up and have gave you the money? and if they have given you the money do you offer half the money back or keep it ? cause i think this causes mis trust between the client and the escort !!

Rose
4
- St Albans escort

April 15, 2018, 3:04 p.m.


Is that question to me, Alan?

I make all my appointments via email, and after a client has expressed interest, I usually have a pretty good idea of what they’re looking for, and whether I can service them. If I think I can’t - which is usually if they have kinks that I can’t work with, or if they’re a woman - I apologise and tell them I’m not the right person. 

After that, I send an information sheet with my requirements and rules - things like the fact that I always use condoms, and only take cash, and require clients to shower or bathe before they visit, and that photography is forbidden, etc. That filters a few more out, though most are happy to agree to my rules. Then when they show up for their first appointment, I do a mini-interview, where we sit down for ten minutes or so and talk about ourselves, with particular focus on their sexual likes and dislikes, and a little bit on their sexual history, and they can ask me any questions they like. It’s only after the interview is complete, and we’re both happy to continue, that they pay me and I start the clock. If either of us isn’t happy after the interview, they go away with their money. (This has never actually happened, but if it did, I wouldn’t hold it against them.)

Of course, mismatches sometimes happen, and you don’t know till you start. Not everyone is compatible with everyone else. I’ve had two clients in the year I’ve been working that I just couldn’t get a reaction from. One had major issues with being touched and thought that he was ready for sex, and found out he wasn’t, so we just lay there holding each other, and I think he got something positive out of it, though I felt strange afterwards - like I hadn’t done my job properly. The other either didn’t know what he liked or refused to tell me, and I couldn’t get any kind of suggestions or feedback from him during the act, and his body simply wouldn’t respond no matter what I tried.

It’s hard to know what to do in cases like that. On the one hand, I hate sending a client away unsatisfied, but on the other hand, I’ve just put in 60-90 minutes of hard work. Both times I ended up offering a refund, and both said no, I should keep the money.

I think you just have to play it by ear. I know some clients abuse a worker’s good nature - I often hear from girls that a client booked 15 minutes and then was angry because he couldn’t get off in that time, and demanded extra time for free. That’s definitely not on.  Then there are workers who don’t really try, and I don’t think that’s OK either. I do my best all the time, and if I’m having trouble giving a BJ because of size, or if he can’t stay erect for vaginal sex, I’ll get him off with my hands. With the exception of those two, I’ve always been able to get my clients off, even if it’s not the way we initially hoped for. Life doesn’t always go as planned, but most guys won’t be mad if they came for a beej or vaginal sex and ended up with a great handjob, as long as they had a great orgasm. 

alan
2
- Blackpool punter

April 17, 2018, 12:38 a.m.


well rose thanks for the reply and i wish we had escort girls like you in blackpool cause they not like that here there is some very good ones and on a number of times i have just been conned out of money maybe my fault gone feet first and not done a proper job of finding out about her and wot she did but a lot of them ere english ones more then the polish or others or on drugs and just run a scam on you some blokes wont take it and i know one who as been very badly beaten up cause of wot she tried to do but yes i like your attitude towards your clients and the fact you go the extra mile to get the end result which is good but hopefully its as good for you and i wouldnt mind if a girl offered me money bk cause just the offering it bk shows you care and you feel you havent earned it but i would let you keep it as well as i have learned we pay for your time not wot you do ,its nice to here that there are girls like you who do really care . thanks alan

Jasmine Jones
3
- Cardiff escort

June 9, 2018, 10:55 a.m.


Very well said Rose!

99.999999% of men that call and say they are on the large side are time wasters and never ever book and if they do they don’t turn up as it is a wind up! This is why you were probably refused hun, as soon as you mention that in correspondence or send a pic the first thing that comes into our head is “here we go again yet another bloody time waster” 

Xxx