A little embarrassing, but I have been with two guys in my life now and both have issues when it comes to wearing a condom in the bedroom. We're fine with everything else and they can stay erect for hours, but as soon as he wears a condom he goes flacid and we can't have sex. I know for a fact that it itsn't me, because as soon as we take off the condom he gets erect straight away again. I have tried googling answers and they keep saying to try different types, but these were thin ones and he still couldn't feel anything through it. We tried doing extra foreplay once he wore the condom but nothing seems to work. I also don't want to have unprotected sex, despite also being on the contraceptive pill, just in case anything were to happen.
Does anyone have the same issue or any helpful advice? I'm being as understanding and patient as possible about this but I'm just concerned since both of my relationships have had this problem now and no one else I speak to seems to have the same issue. Thanks!
I dont put condom .. its fucking annoying
Some guys do find that they lose sensitivity when wearing a condom, while a small minority of others are allergic to latex.
However, that is their problem, not yours, as your safety is paramount. They are the ones who need to learn how to glove up and ensure that they can satisfy you while engaging in safe sex.
maybe a mind thing x
Totally agree with Indigo Nile (love that name by the way) and Ariel it’s their problem not yours and is generally in their heads their brain is whining in the back ground “ awwwwe but I don’t like Condoms!”
I give my clients homework ... down load and listen to Headspace Meditation can work as they learn to hush their minds, and I send them off with a couple of condoms and tell them next time you have a wank put one on!